am recently confronted by a comment, an idea, a caution which feels very much like an unnecessary - even an unkind - judgment.
what i want to do, what i am trying to do is to remember, to believe that this comment comes from no other place than one of love, is motivated by love.
it doesn't feel like love.
but if i'm going to avoid solipsism, then i need to believe it. 'love believes all things and yet is never deceived'. ok.